31 Attributes of God, Day 6: He Is Gentle

31 Attributes of God, Day 6:  He Is Gentle

How often do you think about God being gentle?  While I frequently think about His greatness, His power, and His sovereignty, I usually forget that He is also gentle.  But this is a very important attribute to study because it balances His strength and might.

Let's see what Scripture has to say about God's gentleness:

  • 2 Samuel 22:36 - " You have also given me the shield of Your salvation; Your gentleness has made me great" (NKJV).
  • Matthew 11:29 - " Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls" (NKJV).
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31 Attributes of God, Day 5: He Is Faithful

31 Attributes of God, Day 5:  He Is Faithful

What comes to mind when you hear the word faithful?  For me, I think of continued loyalty or supportive consistency.  

Maybe your thoughts on faithfulness are similar to mine.  Or maybe you've not had a good example of faithfulness in your own life and you really don't know what true faithfulness is.

Whatever your experience with faithfulness - good or bad - God's Word tells us that God is faithful.  The online dictionary describes f0aithfulness as "constancy, loyalty, stability, and dependability."  And I would say that all of those words could be said of our Heavenly Father!

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31 Attributes of God, Day 4: He Is Everlasting

31 Attributes of God, Day 4:  He Is Everlasting

I've always found it fascinating that other world religions put their faith in dead people.  Muhammad is gone; Gandhi has passed away; Joseph Smith has died.  But Christianity is so vastly different.  We place our trust in the living, Eternal God, who was and is and is to come, who has no beginning and no end, who will never die.  Yes, Jesus Christ was crucified and died, but He rose again!!  

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31 Attributes of God, Day 3: He Is the Creator

31 Attributes of God, Day 3:  He Is the Creator

"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth."  Genesis 1:1, NKJV.

Although familiar, these are powerful words.  God created everything we see and know in a mere seven days simply by speaking it into existence. 

It's important that we know and believe that God created our world - that it didn't evolve or get here by chance.  If God was powerful enough to create the universe with a spoken word,  He is powerful enough to rescue us from sin and death.  If God purposefully designed the world we live in, He is capable of caring and providing for us.  

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31 Attributes of God, Day 2: He Is Compassionate

31 Attributes of God, Day 2:  He Is Compassionate

If there's something that doesn't come naturally to me, it's compassion.  Does that surprise you?  While I love being a cheerleader and encourager, when I see someone sick or injured, my first (very STRONG) inclination is to run as far in the opposite direction as possible.

Maybe it's my aversion to blood.  Maybe it's my phobia of all things vomit-related.  I don't know what triggers it, but you know I'm not the compassionate one in our family when a sick child comes to our bedroom door at night and asks for Daddy, not Mommy!  (I know, I know, that's very pathetic, but it's also very true.)

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31 Attributes of God, Day 1: He Is Awesome

31 Attributes of God, Day 1:  He Is Awesome

In my Californian pop-culture environment, I've sadly lost a bit of the weightiness of the word "awesome."  Where I live, the beach is considered awesome, the weather is awesome - almost anything that's even remotely pleasant is considered awesome.

So to say that God is awesome almost seems to imply that He's cool or neat. 

But the true definition of "awesome," according to the online dictionary, helps fill in what my culture is missing:  "extremely impressive or daunting; inspiring great admiration, apprehension, or fear."

That's some pretty heavy stuff, isn't it?  

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31 Attributes of God: Introduction

31 Attributes of God:  Introduction

Earlier this summer, I sat down to list out the attributes of God.  I'd studied His attributes as a child, but aside from remembering the the triple "Omnicient, Omnipotent, and Omnipresent" attributes, I couldn't recall most of the others.  While I don't remember exactly how many we studied when I was little, I somehow had the idea that there were 10 or 12 total.

As I began writing down all the attributes I could think of, I realized that there were far more than I had first thought.  I began hunting online for more of His attributes.  As my list continued to grow, I was surprised to realize how far off my original estimate of 10-12 truly was.  I continued searching, and as of this writing, my list is at 55, and I'm still adding to it.

Even though I've been a Christian for a long time and have studied God's Word in depth, this one study alone showed me just how little I truly know of our Great God.  I shared with Jon what I was learning, and his reply was excellent.  

"Isn't it nice to know that our capable Heavenly Father isn't confined to a short little list?"

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3 Ways to Find Joy in the Hallway

3 Ways to Find Joy in the Hallway

Does joy seem elusive when you're traveling through a long hallway?  Do you feel like you've lost your sparkle when life gets tough?  

There are many times in life when we don't feel like rejoicing, and certainly the Bible indicates that will be seasons of sadness.  But as I've thought about and prayed over the direction of the blog, I'm realizing that I want to take some time to focus on developing a habit of joyful thanksgiving in addition to our posts on suffering.  

After all, as Christians, we have the hope of Eternal Life, where we will spend forever with the Lord!  All of our struggles here on Earth should pale as mild afflictions in comparison to the joy of Eternity with God.

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Is It Sinful for Christians to be on Government Aid?

Is It Sinful for Christians to be on Government Aid?

When we first moved to the Bay Area, money was tight.  We stressed over whether or not we could buy groceries or pay our rent.  And although the Lord graciously met our needs every single time, that phase of life was anything but easy.  

One of the ways God provided for us was through various government assistance plans.  From subsidized housing to Medi-Cal, my state's version of Medicare, we received quite a bit of help from these kinds of government programs.

And I hated every minute we were on them.

I think many of us who grew up in Christian homes came to believe that accepting help from the government was wrong or sinful.  Since God's Word commands husbands to provide for their families, maybe we've just assumed that taking "handouts" of any sort is somehow evading this Biblical mandate.  Whatever the root cause, it felt wrong to me to be on these programs, at least at first.

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Three Ways to Be Still

Have you ever wondered why God doesn't speak directly to us the way He used to speak to people in the Old Testament?  Jon and I have talked about this many times.  And while we don't have specific answers, I've actually wondered if He speaks to us much more directly than we're aware of.

A few weeks back, I was reading in Exodus, and a verse I've read a dozen times or more jumped off the page at me:  "The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still" (NIV, emphasis added).

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4 Ways I Failed to be A Good Friend

If you had to take a test on being a good friend to someone else, would you pass?  I know I wouldn't.  I could blame my introverted personality or my busy schedule.  I could say I live too far away or that I didn't want to interrupt someone's day.  But those would be excuses, not reasons.

Being a good friend doesn't come easily to me.  I've let entire weeks (and in rare occasions, months or even years) go by without checking in on my friends.  A lot of that does have to do with my shy nature that thrives best at home, but a lot also comes from being forgetful (and perhaps a little lazy, too).  

As a Christian, however, I know that friendships are vital.  We need other Christians to come alongside us, support us, and encourage us in God's Word.  If we don't actively pursue friendships for these purposes, they won't happen on their own, and we'll lose those opportunities.

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What a Passover Meal Taught Me About Perfection and Grace

For the past several years, Jon and I have tried to put together a Passover meal of sorts for the spark plugs.  Each year varies slightly, but our goal is to serve grape juice, unleavened bread, and lamb while we have the kids take turns reading various Scripture passages that pertain to Passover and the Last Supper.  

This is a great way to help everyone connect the Old Testament sacrificial system with Jesus' perfect sacrifice on the Cross.  

This year, we had many of the traditional dishes:  barbecued lamb, boiled eggs, bitter herbs with salt water, carbonated grape juice.  But while the boiled eggs turned out perfectly, the gluten-free unleavened bread I tried to make flopped royally.

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6 Things to Do When Your Mama Heart Hurts

6 Things to Do When Your Mama Heart Hurts

Seeing children suffer is one of the hardest things in the world.  It can even make us begin to question whether or not God is as good as He claims to be.  And if you're anything like me, you would much rather do something other than sitting idly by.  While I think learning to wait well is a skill that every believer needs to develop, I also believe there are at least six things we can do when our mama hearts hurt.

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Does Your Daily Quiet Time Need A Makeover?

On paper, I look like a fantastic Christian.I've been saved for nearly 30 years.  I grew up in a Christian home.  I went to a Christian college and earned a minor degree in Bible.  I'm married to an amazing Christian husband.  I even read my Bible every day for over 5 years.

But just because I look good on paper doesn't mean that my faith is strong or that I have life all figured out.  In fact, the very opposite is true.

Whenever I go through a crisis, I panic in fear instead of standing boldly in faith.  While I have a lot of Bible facts memorized, I really don't have the first clue about applying the truths of God's Word to my life.  And even though I read my Bible every day for so long, I never studied it or let it change me.  At times, I actually feel like a Christian fraud.

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How to Start A Coffee Tradition with your Struggling Son

Jon and I used to watch Locked Up Abroad, a documentary on Westerners who have been incarcerated in another country.  (I don't necessarily recommend the show; I seem to remember some pretty gruesome details at times.)  Most of the stories were about men who had decided to do drug runs once or twice to earn extra income and who had been caught in the process.  Without fail, what they all regretted most was having hurt their mothers by their poor choices.

And it made me realize something important:  we as mothers have a profound influence over their children, even when we don't feel like we do. 

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3 Ways to Pray When Your Mama Heart Hurts

"When Your Mama Heart Hurts" was one of the most-loved posts on the blog last year.  And you know what?  It was one of my favorites to write, too, because it's something that's often on my heart.

From physical infirmity to spiritual struggle, there's no shortage of heartache that we as parents go through as we watch our children suffer.  That's simply life in our broken, fallen state.

But for the believing parent, there is always hope.  And I've come to realize that there are three very specific ways we can pray when our mama hearts hurt.

 

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On Whole30, Celiac Disease, and the Bread of Life

I'm currently in the middle of my first-ever so-called Whole30.  I don't have anything against grains, legumes, dairy, or sugar - I love a giant cookie as much as anyone else - but I decided to try this month-long eating plan for a few reasons.  For starters, I have some small health concerns that I'd love to reverse naturally.  More importantly, Whole30 is similar to the diet and lifestyle that we've found best suits Turbo's diabetes and Celiac Disease needs, and I think he really needed someone to journey with him on his food adventures.  Plus, I had some support since a few of my extended family members had recently done it themselves.

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Can There Be Beauty in the Hallway?

When we moved into our current home a little over a year ago, I was a bit apprehensive about having a house with a hallway.  I've shared before that hallways, whether literal or figurative, aren't my favorite things.  But as I've grown used to my new home and as I've walked down my new hallway countless times, I've begun to notice something totally unexpected:

I'm falling in love with my hallway.

Honestly?  I can't believe that I'd ever even like a hallway, let alone love one.  But as I walk through my hallway multiple times a day, I've come to realize some important things about it:

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3 Ways to Enjoy A Slice (or Two) of Humble Pie

This past week I got to eat not one, but two slices of humble pie.  And if I'm honest, they didn't taste all that great, at least not at first.

With the first slice, I thought I had some wisdom to offer a friend who was going through a hard time.  But it turned out that I had completely misunderstood the situation, and my insights were so off the mark that they didn't really relate what she was experiencing.

Oops.

(She was very gracious.)

For the second slice, my quartet was preparing to sing in front of small audience.  I had prepared well, so I thought, and was really starting to feel confident about my part.  I hadn't given much thought to what might happen if I got nervous.

However, I now know what happens when nerves hit:  I can't sing.  At all.

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Why I Said Goodbye to Social Media

Obedience.

This word isn't all that popular today, not even in many Christian circles.  Obedience often (always?) requires sacrifice.  And sacrifice is uncomfortable.

Last weekend, Arabah Joy's weekly newsletter landed in my inbox as it normally does each Sunday afternoon.  Now, I've long enjoyed her challenges to seek a deeper walk with Christ, and I eagerly look forward to reading what she has to share.  But this weekend's email hit me like a ton of bricks.

"What do you need to stop doing in order to start growing in your faith?" she challenged us.

And I knew immediately what my "stop doing" list needed to entail:

Social media.

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