31 Attributes of God, Day 13: He Is Love

31 Attributes of God, Day 13:  He Is Love

Most of us are familiar with today's attribute.  In fact, God's love is probably His most well-known characteristic!  But God's love goes far deeper than a general warm affection toward His creation.  His love is unending, sacrificial, and complete.  

John 3:16 sums up God's love perfectly:  "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life" (NKJV, emphasis added).

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31 Attributes of God, Day 12: He Is Longsuffering

31 Attributes of God, Day 12:  He Is Longsuffering

I am so excited about today's attribute:  God's longsuffering.  Longsuffering isn't a word a lot of people are familiar with anymore (in fact, as I'm typing this, my computer is telling me that I'm misspelling it because it's not in my computer's database).  Longsuffering can be translated as having patience throughout a lengthy trial, according to the online dictionary.

The longsuffering of the Lord has long intrigued me, probably because longsuffering is something that doesn't come naturally to me.  And I'm quite certain I'm not alone in that; longsuffering, or patience, is an area where many people struggle.  

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31 Attributes of God, Day 11: He Is Just

31 Attributes of God, Day 11:  He Is Just

I absolutely love the way God's many attributes dovetail and compliment one another in a beautiful kaleidoscope that reveals Himself to us in such a neat and detailed way! 

Yesterday, we looked at God's jealousy, an attribute that may rub us wrong on the surface.  But God can be righteously jealous because He is also just.  The online dictionary describes just as "behaving according to what is morally right and fair."  If we trust that God is morally right and fair - and we do - then we can rest assured that His jealousy is just.

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31 Attributes of God, Day 10: He Is Jealous

31 Attributes of God, Day 10:  He Is Jealous

Talking about God's jealousy almost feels anti-Christian.  Aren't we commanded not to be jealous or envious?  Isn't jealousy a sin?  How, then, can our Good God also be a jealous God?

There is a big difference between our sinful jealousy, which we are definitely commanded to repent from, and God's jealousy, which is righteous and pure.  Whereas our jealousy is nearly always rooted in sin, the Creator God has a right to desire our praise, our attention, and our hearts and thus is right to be jealous when we give these things to someone other than Himself.    

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31 Attributes of God, Day 9: He Is Infinite

31 Attributes of God, Day 9:  He Is Infinite

When I was little, I didn't fully grasp the concept of infinity.  (Actually, I probably still don't!)  As I learned more about math and numbers, I gained greater clarity on the topic because I could see how someone could keep on counting forever and never reach an end.

In fact, math is an excellent way for our finite minds to get a small taste of how God can be infinite.  But numbers are infinite because the God who made them is infinite; that's why the creation helps us better understand the Creator.

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31 Attributes of God, Day 8: He Is Holy

31 Attributes of God, Day 8:  He Is Holy

How often do you think of God's holiness?  And how often do you live as though you serve a Holy God?  Although I try to remember God's holiness, I must admit that I don't always live my life as though God is holy.  I'm not diligent to root out my sin; somehow, some sins seem to be excusable and I don't ruthlessly fight to live a holy life the way I should.

But God's holiness should compel us to strive, with His help, to live a blameless life.

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31 Attributes of God, Day 7: He Is Good

31 Attributes of God, Day 7:  He Is Good

Do you have trouble believing God is good?  Many people do.  We see the brokenness of the world we live in, and it's tempting to ask how God could be good and yet allow the tragedies that we see happening all around us.

But that's where faith in God's Word comes in.  He promises over and over that He is good despite how bad our Earthly situation is. 

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31 Attributes of God, Day 6: He Is Gentle

31 Attributes of God, Day 6:  He Is Gentle

How often do you think about God being gentle?  While I frequently think about His greatness, His power, and His sovereignty, I usually forget that He is also gentle.  But this is a very important attribute to study because it balances His strength and might.

Let's see what Scripture has to say about God's gentleness:

  • 2 Samuel 22:36 - " You have also given me the shield of Your salvation; Your gentleness has made me great" (NKJV).
  • Matthew 11:29 - " Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls" (NKJV).
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31 Attributes of God, Day 5: He Is Faithful

31 Attributes of God, Day 5:  He Is Faithful

What comes to mind when you hear the word faithful?  For me, I think of continued loyalty or supportive consistency.  

Maybe your thoughts on faithfulness are similar to mine.  Or maybe you've not had a good example of faithfulness in your own life and you really don't know what true faithfulness is.

Whatever your experience with faithfulness - good or bad - God's Word tells us that God is faithful.  The online dictionary describes f0aithfulness as "constancy, loyalty, stability, and dependability."  And I would say that all of those words could be said of our Heavenly Father!

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31 Attributes of God, Day 4: He Is Everlasting

31 Attributes of God, Day 4:  He Is Everlasting

I've always found it fascinating that other world religions put their faith in dead people.  Muhammad is gone; Gandhi has passed away; Joseph Smith has died.  But Christianity is so vastly different.  We place our trust in the living, Eternal God, who was and is and is to come, who has no beginning and no end, who will never die.  Yes, Jesus Christ was crucified and died, but He rose again!!  

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31 Attributes of God, Day 3: He Is the Creator

31 Attributes of God, Day 3:  He Is the Creator

"In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth."  Genesis 1:1, NKJV.

Although familiar, these are powerful words.  God created everything we see and know in a mere seven days simply by speaking it into existence. 

It's important that we know and believe that God created our world - that it didn't evolve or get here by chance.  If God was powerful enough to create the universe with a spoken word,  He is powerful enough to rescue us from sin and death.  If God purposefully designed the world we live in, He is capable of caring and providing for us.  

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31 Attributes of God, Day 2: He Is Compassionate

31 Attributes of God, Day 2:  He Is Compassionate

If there's something that doesn't come naturally to me, it's compassion.  Does that surprise you?  While I love being a cheerleader and encourager, when I see someone sick or injured, my first (very STRONG) inclination is to run as far in the opposite direction as possible.

Maybe it's my aversion to blood.  Maybe it's my phobia of all things vomit-related.  I don't know what triggers it, but you know I'm not the compassionate one in our family when a sick child comes to our bedroom door at night and asks for Daddy, not Mommy!  (I know, I know, that's very pathetic, but it's also very true.)

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31 Attributes of God, Day 1: He Is Awesome

31 Attributes of God, Day 1:  He Is Awesome

In my Californian pop-culture environment, I've sadly lost a bit of the weightiness of the word "awesome."  Where I live, the beach is considered awesome, the weather is awesome - almost anything that's even remotely pleasant is considered awesome.

So to say that God is awesome almost seems to imply that He's cool or neat. 

But the true definition of "awesome," according to the online dictionary, helps fill in what my culture is missing:  "extremely impressive or daunting; inspiring great admiration, apprehension, or fear."

That's some pretty heavy stuff, isn't it?  

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31 Attributes of God: Introduction

31 Attributes of God:  Introduction

Earlier this summer, I sat down to list out the attributes of God.  I'd studied His attributes as a child, but aside from remembering the the triple "Omnicient, Omnipotent, and Omnipresent" attributes, I couldn't recall most of the others.  While I don't remember exactly how many we studied when I was little, I somehow had the idea that there were 10 or 12 total.

As I began writing down all the attributes I could think of, I realized that there were far more than I had first thought.  I began hunting online for more of His attributes.  As my list continued to grow, I was surprised to realize how far off my original estimate of 10-12 truly was.  I continued searching, and as of this writing, my list is at 55, and I'm still adding to it.

Even though I've been a Christian for a long time and have studied God's Word in depth, this one study alone showed me just how little I truly know of our Great God.  I shared with Jon what I was learning, and his reply was excellent.  

"Isn't it nice to know that our capable Heavenly Father isn't confined to a short little list?"

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7 Painful Lessons My First Viral Post Taught Me

7 Painful Lessons My First Viral Post Taught Me

Last week, my post "Is It Sinful for Christians to be on Government Aid?" went viral (or what is viral for me - I got more pageviews in one day than I usually get all year).  In that post, I opened up about my insecurities about receiving help from our local social services office.  Being on government assistance is often frowned upon, and wondering whether or not it was against God's Word was was a question I'd personally wrestled with.  I felt it was a fitting post to share on the Hallway Initiative since many of us here have struggled with or are still in the throes of financial hardship.

Because I also shared in that post about Erin Odom's new book, More Than Just Making It, her assistant sweetly shared the post on The Humbled Homemaker's FB page.

And the post blew up...for all the wrong reasons.

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3 Ways to Find Joy in the Hallway

3 Ways to Find Joy in the Hallway

Does joy seem elusive when you're traveling through a long hallway?  Do you feel like you've lost your sparkle when life gets tough?  

There are many times in life when we don't feel like rejoicing, and certainly the Bible indicates that will be seasons of sadness.  But as I've thought about and prayed over the direction of the blog, I'm realizing that I want to take some time to focus on developing a habit of joyful thanksgiving in addition to our posts on suffering.  

After all, as Christians, we have the hope of Eternal Life, where we will spend forever with the Lord!  All of our struggles here on Earth should pale as mild afflictions in comparison to the joy of Eternity with God.

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Is It Sinful for Christians to be on Government Aid?

Is It Sinful for Christians to be on Government Aid?

When we first moved to the Bay Area, money was tight.  We stressed over whether or not we could buy groceries or pay our rent.  And although the Lord graciously met our needs every single time, that phase of life was anything but easy.  

One of the ways God provided for us was through various government assistance plans.  From subsidized housing to Medi-Cal, my state's version of Medicare, we received quite a bit of help from these kinds of government programs.

And I hated every minute we were on them.

I think many of us who grew up in Christian homes came to believe that accepting help from the government was wrong or sinful.  Since God's Word commands husbands to provide for their families, maybe we've just assumed that taking "handouts" of any sort is somehow evading this Biblical mandate.  Whatever the root cause, it felt wrong to me to be on these programs, at least at first.

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Why I'm Taking A Second Look At Mommy Guilt (Part 2)

Why I'm Taking A Second Look At Mommy Guilt (Part 2)

In Part 1 of the Mommy Guilt series, we tackled ungodly Mommy Guilt - the negative thoughts that the devil uses in an attempt to undermine our God-given parenting abilities.  But as I mentioned in that first post, there are actually two different kinds of Mommy Guilt.

And today, I want to confront the second kind of Mommy Guilt - the God-given kind.

Yes, there is such a thing as Godly Mommy Guilt!  This type of Mommy Guilt is the inner twang of conviction that the Holy Spirit gives when we're not being Godly parents.  Do you ever feel a pang of guilt about not spending enough time with your little ones?  Are you ever convicted about the way you reacted to your child's disobedience?  Are you ever frustrated that you lost your temper (again!) with your kiddos?

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Now Available: "A Place Prepared" Ebook + Giveaway!

Now Available:  "A Place Prepared" Ebook + Giveaway!

Four years ago, I sat dumbfounded in a waiting room while an Urgent Care doctor dropped the bombshell that Turbo had Type 1 Diabetes.  That moment was one of the worst of my life, and I had no idea how any good would ever come of it.

But just as God promised, He used it for my good and His glory.  And I've shared all the details of that day and others like it in my just-released ebook, "A Place Prepared."  

If you've ever felt as though life is too overwhelming or that you were unprepared for the things you've gone through, I encourage you to grab your very own copy.  My prayer is that in sharing my story, you'll see echos of your own and be able to see God's hand over every situation in your life.  

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Why I'm Taking A Second Look At Mommy Guilt (Part 1)

Why I'm Taking A Second Look At Mommy Guilt (Part 1)

Everywhere I look, I see bloggers and speakers encouraging mamas to let go of so-called Mommy Guilt.  And I'm glad...for the most part.  As a mom myself, I know how easy it is to let negativity creep in.  Satan has a heyday in my mind, trying to convince me that I'm not a good mom, that I will never succeed as a parent, and that I'll never measure up in society's eyes.  The reminders not to succumb to that kind of negative thinking are good and Biblical.

But I've also begun to wonder if, perhaps, I've gotten a little too good at shelving Mommy Guilt.  As I've thought through the concept of Mom Guilt, I've come to understand that there actually two different kinds.  And if we ignore them both, we're making a big mistake.

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